Why Is My Ex Seeking 50/50 Custody When They Are Not Equally Involved in the Children's Care?
When a parent who was never hands on suddenly wants equal time, it is rarely about parenting. Here are the three real reasons, and what you can do.
7 Signs You Are Meant to Become a High Conflict Divorce Coach
Interested in becoming a divorce coach? You keep coming back to the idea of helping other survivors. Here are seven signs it might be your next chapter.
Can Helping Others Heal You? Why Many High Conflict Divorce Coaches Find Purpose Without Reopening Old Wounds
Many survivors fear that helping others means reliving their pain. For many high conflict divorce coaches, the opposite turns out to be true.
How to Use Your High Conflict Divorce Coach Certification: 7 Meaningful Career Paths After Certification
Interested in becoming a divorce coach? From one-on-one coaching to advocacy, retreats, and speaking, there is no single way to use your certification. Here are seven paths.
What If My Ex Finds Out I'm Becoming a High Conflict Divorce Coach?
The hardest part was not the coursework. It was imagining what my ex would think. Here is how I moved forward anyway.
From Surviving to Serving: When Lived Experience Becomes Your Greatest Qualification
Divorcing a narcissist, or a high conflict individual? You paid an extraordinary price for what you know. For many survivors, a quiet question eventually surfaces: What if my pain could have a purpose?
The Grief No One Talks About: Mourning Someone Who Never Existed
You are not grieving the person who harmed you. You are grieving the person you believed you married. That grief is real, and it deserves space.
You Cannot Communicate Your Way to Peace With a Narcissist
There are no perfect words that will make a narcissistic coparent reasonable. There is only strategy. Here is what that looks like.
Document Everything: Why Your Paper Trail Is Your Power in Family Court
In a high conflict divorce, documentation is how the truth gets a witness. Here is what to record and how to do it without losing yourself.
A Day in the Life of a High-Conflict Divorce Coach
Divorce coaching is a flexible, remote career that fits around your family — and helps others navigate the hardest chapter of their lives.
10 Signs You're Dealing with a High Conflict Personality
Divorce or child custody battle? Not every difficult person is high conflict — but if yours is, recognizing the pattern is the first step toward protecting yourself.
The Email That Used to Ruin My Whole Day
Family court when divorcing a narcissist. One email used to ruin my whole day. Here's how I learned to stop engaging with high conflict communication and protect my peace.
Overcoming The Fear of What They'll Say: Choosing a Meaningful Remote Career Despite My Ex’s Opinions
You survived it. You learned from it. Now you want to help others navigate what you once faced alone. But somewhere between the desire and the decision, an old fear shows up: what will they think? This post is about finally stopping the practice of asking permission from people who were never going to give it.
I Chose the Wrong Attorney in My High Conflict Child Custody Battle, Now What?
Choosing the wrong attorney in a high conflict custody battle happens more often than people admit. The good news? You are not stuck. Here is how to course correct and find the support you actually need.
How Do I Interview Attorneys for My High Conflict Divorce or Child Custody Battle?
Divorcing a narcissist is unlike any other divorce and not every attorney is equipped to handle it. Here's how to interview attorneys so you find someone who understands high conflict dynamics and knows how to fight strategically.
3 Free Techniques to IMMEDIATELY Bring Your Anxiety Level Down
Anxiety can hit at any moment when you're navigating a high conflict divorce or child custody battle. These three free techniques can calm your nervous system and bring you back to center fast.
Here’s Why I Took a Settlement in My Child Custody Battle
In a high conflict custody battle, you cannot fight every battle. Sometimes, accepting a settlement isn't giving up — it's a strategic decision to protect your peace, your stability, and your children.
10 Visitation Rituals Protective Parents Swear By
When your children leave for visitation, the quiet can be overwhelming. Visitation rituals are small, intentional practices that help protective parents stay grounded, connected, and centered during the time apart.
What is a “Visitation Ritual” and How Do I Create One?
When your children are at visitation, the anxiety and fear can feel unbearable. A visitation ritual is a small, intentional practice that offers grounding, connection, and emotional structure during one of the hardest parts of this journey.
How to Find Meaning in Life When Your Children are with Their Abusive Parent
When your children are with the other parent, the quiet can feel unbearable. But finding meaning during visitation isn't just nice — it's necessary. This week, we're exploring how to survive and even begin to thrive during one of the hardest parts of this journey.
